That's just like a mouse walking to the throat of a lion thinking he's going to turn around and walk back out; mind you the lion hasn't eaten in a while.10.
If a woman invites you to her home, and it is early on during your season of dating, it is not unmasculine to say that you wouldn't feel comfortable doing that....11.
Places to go on the first seven dates should be chosen intelligently and not emotionally.
A video recorded there has "spawned a revolution among black women," according to Essence magazine.
Yes, I am Prophetess Juanita Bynum, but I am not dead.
I know you think that you cannot be anointed and still have a desire to sleep with someone. Always keep your first seven dates filled with educational and cultural things.
Some think that because I am anointed I never get frustrated. They think I don't ever want to do something wrong, but let me tell you that the devil is a liar. Before you make the decision to begin embracing your new life style, I'm going to list a few do's and don'ts--for your dating pleasure. If someone you have a strong attraction for, or vice versa, invites you to an evening event, make it a group thing.2. It helps to stimulate the intellect and not the sex drive.4.
Every single day I struggle to crucify my flesh, and if you tell the truth, you would say the same thing. Allow the man to be the man in every sense of the word.
I know what it feels like to go to the mall or the laundromat and see fine men everywhere and ain't none of them your husband. There's been times I wish I could give a man my pager number or my office phone number. Allow him to flourish in his own masculinity by opening doors, paying the check, etc.5.
While at breakfast, lunch, or dinner table, you tell him what you want on the menu and allow him to order for both of you. On the first date dress conservatively because, remember, the attention must not be drawn to any part of your physical body.
When you dress naked, you leave nothing to the imagination and you cause him never to tap into the real person that you are! Always insist on him meeting your family and friends....8.
If you are very serious about your interest in a person, before there is any talk of marriage always insist that he meet your pastor--shepherds can see farther than the sheep can....9.
If a man invites you to his home, for any reason at all--whether it's to see his trophies or his pet, help him decorate, or even to see the ashtray he made in the first grade--always take a friend.
Remember, you're walking into his territory, where his spirit rules.