I’m not running around hugging trees and braiding daisies into my hair, but I honestly believe that we would all struggle a lot less with dating and relationships if we lived in a perfect world where each and every one of us were told from a young age that we were beautiful, special and had unique gifts to offer the world – and to the person with whom we would eventually share our life.
If each of us grew into self-assured people brimming with confidence, we would naturally possess the tools we need to live out the life of our dreams and create a healthy, happy, drama-free relationship.
I love his "tough love" - because sometimes it's hard to see how much power we actually have, and because so many "gurus" are afraid to say the truth about men and relationships.
If you've been frustrated and confused about why your relationships aren't working the way you want them to - this book will change your love life.
Coming from a man who's had so much experience helping women in real life, who has so many success stories in his track record and has a distinctly masculine point of view is just so incredibly valuable.
Now that I’ve acknowledged the two biggest stereotypes that people think are to blame for screwed up relationships, let’s look at the real root cause of dating drama: feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem.
We voluntarily stop doing some of the things we care about.
We cancel plans with our friends if we think that there’s a chance our partner will want to spend time with us.
We mislead ourselves to think that if we just hang around him or her enough, we can make the relationship progress forward out of sheer will.
'Why He Disappeared' is exactly what I would have wanted to write if I were a man...
Evan tells it to us straight - with humor, with passion, and in a way that will stick with you - that will actually make a huge difference for you.
We women have been sold the lie for so long that we have no power in relationships - and Evan turns that lie around and gives you your power back.
He not only gives you your power back, he shows you exactly how to use it - and what's even MORE important, how NOT to use it.